As i went thru Jiin’s and Charng’s blogs i realised both of them have their new entries about their partners. Jiin said she’s diabetic after writing her entry and even warned that those who reads it will be diabetic as well. Charng on the other hand, wrote an entry about how she
needs to regain her memory strength forgot her password and Kevin came to the rescue.
I haven’t actually said much about my partner. I mean besides my MMU friends, others kept bugging me on this matter. Maybe by simply going through the blog, you can see it’s a bit obvious but the thing is i never directly claimed nor wrote an entry about her. Today i will share some super short stories on her, just to let you get a brief idea who she is.
Last weekend, I called her up. Simply asking what was she doing, yada yada, those routine questions. She replied, saying that she was getting a loan and will be paying 200 bucks monthly for …. and the line went fuzzy. I didn’t really catch what she was saying as the background sound on her side wasn’t helping much either. I said, ” Ahhhhhhh ?” Indication of ‘can you please repeat what you have said earlier’. I was lazy and opted for the one syllable reply instead.
“I am getting a loan to buy a chair …..”
“And every month i need to pay 200 ringgit for it …..”
At this point i was laughing and banging the table. I for one, haven’t actually come across anyone who needs a loan for a chair. I thought buying a chair is as easy walking in, choosing it and paying cold hard cash.
So that’s a little teaser on my super duper partner. Soon she’ll be telling me, she needs loan for 2B pencils.
I know i haven’t been nice to her, especially in my blog and also *ahem* in real person. Like i said in my previous entry, even my mum thought i wasn’t gentleman enough to her =_=” and now she uses this as threat. Today alone, she threatened me 6 times, to call up my mum and report on my wrong doings. Now how can i even let her take advantage like this ? But when anything has to do with my parents, i will quietly listen *scared of them*
Nevertheless, as my other 2 kaki’s above mentioned positive things about their partners. I too shall attempt to do so.
The main reason why i like her is, she’s able to communicate well. For me communication always comes first. I don’t girls who simply follows whatever is said to her. With her around, i know she will give me feedback and occassionally over rule decisions that i have made Physical appearance only comes in second after ‘ability to communicate’. You have to understand that having a great physical appearance does actually boost your confidence and thus making you look good. Indirectly, it does help with your relationship. Imagine this, from the first day of your relationship till now, you have the same style of physical outlook. It will definitely bore your partner. I am not suggesting to have an overhaul but simple modification once in a while can simply help spice up your relationship. Again all this can happen easily if you are able to communicate well with your partner. She happens to listen to me when it comes to physical appearance and i grateful for that. Eventhough you are able to communicate well with your partner, there are times ideas, judgement and decisions collide. Resulting in supernova kind of quarrels. It’s ok to quarrel, it’s all part of relationship. We do give in to each other all the time. Sometime, she can see how damn childish i am and she will quietly agree with me just not to make matters worst. Same goes with me. One thing is for sure, when there’s quarrel, we always make it a point to settle it before 24hours. We never prolonged it more than that.
Now i feel i am writing on how a relationship should be like =_=”
So now you know what is the main drive in my relationship which is communication. Enough of me talking here, gonna hit the sack. Goodnight everyone. I end it with a collage of me and Lingster And to Lingster, thanks for the continuing support you’re giving me. Love you